Who would be your ideal partner?

[ThunderStorm™]

Discuss here things/traits you look for in a partner.

How would you like your partner to be physically and mentally?

[Gypsy]

Something I have learned with age..... someone who you didn't find physically attractive at first can become smoldering hot as you get to know them... when you spend time talking to someone & you realize you find all many of the traits that you know you want (sense of humor, compassionate, non-judgemental, inner warmth that radiates outward, trustworthy) traits that you never really knew were important to you (enjoys a huge range of music, is a romantic at heart, stable in thier place and plans in life).....

then that person begins to help you become more open-minded to what you thought was physically attractive.....

Here is the case-n-point.... I am at the grocery store, Man asks me out, I don't see him as all that attractive & I politely decline a date but accept friendly conversation because I am new in town & don't know many people yet. I am mid-40s, he is mid-60s.... he is balding... he is heavy-set... he is shorter than me & I am not tall.... he sorta has that dorky-nerdy-oldguy look to him...... spend a month getting to know him... getting to know about him & his family & his journey in life... and we realized we had the same wide-open love of music, we swapped CDs, we met up to see live music, etc.....

and there came a point in time that I was sitting at a table watching music with a group of friends & I realized that I was smoldering.... I wanted him so badly that my mouth was in pain waiting to kiss him, my thighs were on fire at the thought of him... I was certain that if I said anything to him I would be pulling off my clothes before we could even get to the car..... so I stepped outside to cool down for a moment.... jotted him a note, slipped of my panties, walked back to the table & tucked my panties into his coat pocket along with the note... he asked me if I was okay, I assured him I was fine... when he reached to see what was I had placed in his pocket... and he started to pull them out (completely not expecting anything like this), he excused himself to the restroom..... apparently read my note, came back upstairs to the table, slipped his hand around my arm, said "excuse us" at the table, and whirled me outside.... we played in the car, enough to work out the immediate need & planned to meet back at my house after the show to go at it some more, put ourselves back to presentable appearance, walked back to the table, sat with our friends, saw the rest of the show

Never assume that someone you don't find immediate attractive chemistry at first sight won't become incredibly attractive as you get to know them & experience more of life with them!!

So I have learned... that what might be an ideal partner at first glance.... might just not make you smolder other than that first glance..... and what might not attract at all at first might make you wanna rip your panties off

[ThunderStorm™]

Thats a good point Gypsy. This happens often. Someone who at first we dont feel attracted to, with time and exposure to them we might end op liking later in more than one way.

[PR princess]

My ideal partner would be a man who can handle a strong willed woman. I am not into looks so his physical aperance doesn't matter.He would have to be strong,protective, and not a pussy!!!!!

[TrueConfessions]

Something I have learned with age..... someone who you didn't find physically attractive at first can become smoldering hot as you get to know them... when you spend time talking to someone & you realize you find all many of the traits that you know you want (sense of humor, compassionate, non-judgemental, inner warmth that radiates outward, trustworthy) traits that you never really knew were important to you (enjoys a huge range of music, is a romantic at heart, stable in thier place and plans in life).....

then that person begins to help you become more open-minded to what you thought was physically attractive.....

Here is the case-n-point.... I am at the grocery store, Man asks me out, I don't see him as all that attractive & I politely decline a date but accept friendly conversation because I am new in town & don't know many people yet. I am mid-40s, he is mid-60s.... he is balding... he is heavy-set... he is shorter than me & I am not tall.... he sorta has that dorky-nerdy-oldguy look to him...... spend a month getting to know him... getting to know about him & his family & his journey in life... and we realized we had the same wide-open love of music, we swapped CDs, we met up to see live music, etc.....

and there came a point in time that I was sitting at a table watching music with a group of friends & I realized that I was smoldering.... I wanted him so badly that my mouth was in pain waiting to kiss him, my thighs were on fire at the thought of him... I was certain that if I said anything to him I would be pulling off my clothes before we could even get to the car..... so I stepped outside to cool down for a moment.... jotted him a note, slipped of my panties, walked back to the table & tucked my panties into his coat pocket along with the note... he asked me if I was okay, I assured him I was fine... when he reached to see what was I had placed in his pocket... and he started to pull them out (completely not expecting anything like this), he excused himself to the restroom..... apparently read my note, came back upstairs to the table, slipped his hand around my arm, said "excuse us" at the table, and whirled me outside.... we played in the car, enough to work out the immediate need & planned to meet back at my house after the show to go at it some more, put ourselves back to presentable appearance, walked back to the table, sat with our friends, saw the rest of the show

Never assume that someone you don't find immediate attractive chemistry at first sight won't become incredibly attractive as you get to know them & experience more of life with them!!

So I have learned... that what might be an ideal partner at first glance.... might just not make you smolder other than that first glance..... and what might not attract at all at first might make you wanna rip your panties off


I so strongly agree with this one.. That's why I am not after of the physical thing.. I know a person could be better than just that..

[ashleymneil]

Discuss here things/traits you look for in a partner.

How would you like your partner to be physically and mentally?

If I have to decide on how my ideal person would be then actually its a very long list of wants and desires.

But still I would mention that my ideal man should be tall and sexy hot, should be chivalrous enough so that I should look up to him and not that he should look up to me.

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[1bignwantlick]

interesting reply


My ideal partner would be a man who can handle a strong willed woman. I am not into looks so his physical aperance doesn't matter.He would have to be strong,protective, and not a pussy!!!!!

[Bookworm]

My ideal woman has always been petite, slim and more cute than pretty or beautiful. I don't do big tits, so that would be a definite turn-off.

In an ideal world she would be funny, able to handle an emotionally needy guy and also be my intellectual equal. There is nothing worse than finding someone attractive then finding out that you have f*ck all to talk about!

Ultimately, though, ideal partners are great fantasies. If you are lucky enough to find yours, then great. Most settle for a compromise I guess and some of us get it all wrong completely! Two divorces under my belt by the time I was thirty-four suggested to me that I was better-off as a single man, which I still am age fifty.

[dan17]

my ideal partner is someone i can always count on through happy or sad mood, understanding in a sense to compromise things to be settle, a mature thinker which i will learned a lot.

physical looks will vary depending on how she speak, carry her self to the public. On thing for sure i'll go for the one who has sense of humor, brain than beauty and sexy but no sense when talking